I don’t interact or respond to no picture; zero info profiles. If you can’t put any effort into your profile it is doubtful you’ll put any effort into the bedroom. Curvy BBW, long brown hair, blue eyes, college-educated professional in an open marriage. I have my life together and expect you to have yours together as well. I have a sarcastic sometimes dark sense of humor and am pretty open to trying new things in the bedroom once I am comfortable with someone. I am pretty introverted in person and do not meet in person often unless I feel like I really know the person and there is chemistry. I am not looking for random hookups, one hit wonders or passing through your town hook-ups. I am looking for single person to enjoy ongoing fun with that is local. I am interested in fun, intelligent, sarcastic chat, and sure some sex talk with what your likes and dislikes are. Mostly I want to get to know a bit about you and your preferences where we can both make an adult decision if going forward to meeting is an option. We all have own preferences and this should not turn into drama if one of us decides no thanks. No harm, no foul. People like what they like. I also prefer being submissive in the bedroom and looking to experiment to find my likes and dislikes. Men who have experience & knowledge with Dom/sub dynamitic go to the top of the list. Men who are submissive and/or want the woman to take charge in the bedroom is an instant turn off to me. MY turns-on are intelligent, dark humor, sarcastic, take-charge, in control authoritative types who can talk dirty and give orders in bed, tall, beards, and strong shoulders,... masculinity is not toxic; it is fucking hot. A man who has his life in order and takes care of the details is the type of man I can respect and find attractive. For me, personality is everything and is above physical appearance. Non-negotiables: I cannot host. I do not travel outside of my location. We must meet in person in public before the bedroom. Must have a recent STD test to show and I will provide mine. Must be respectful of my boundaries; be honest and upfront about what you are looking for. Must be clear about your schedule and times meeting would work. If our schedules do not align there is no point meeting in person.

My Ideal Person My turns-on are intelligent, dark humor, sarcastic, take-charge, in control authoritative types that talk dirty and gives orders in bedroom, tall, beards, and strong shoulders,... masculinity is not toxic; it is hot. For me, personality is everything and is above physical appearance.

Non-negotiables:

I cannot host.

I do not travel outside of my location.

We must meet in person in public before the bedroom.

Must have a recent STD test to show and I will provide mine.

Must be respectful of my boundaries; be honest and upfront about what you are looking for.

Must be clear about your schedule and times meeting would work. If our schedules do not align there is no point meeting in person.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Spanking, Role Playing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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